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The Ins And Outs Of Pegging: Get In There, Girl

Pegging

Hi Lovers, let’s get right in there with todays pointed question…

What is pegging?

Also known as BOB, which stands for Bend Over Boyfriend, pegging is becoming more widely spoken about. This is not to say that most guys are open to it (!) but as with so many other previously taboo topics, references to pegging are becoming more commonplace and less gasped at.

As with anything sexual, it is really a case of ‘to each his own’ and no man should ever be pressured into any sexual act. But girls, if you are looking to explore a new avenue *cough* and he is keen to try, this may be the blow-your-hair-back experience you’ve both been waiting for.  

Boys, if you’ve never considered it, I urge you to open your mind (and your sweet, sweet starfish). You know your g-spot is buried up there, right? Buried treasure, as it turns out. And if you have a woman who is an adventurous explorer, you should let her in to uncover a wealth of riotous orgasms!

Apparently once you’ve tried Back, you never… umm… go back.

There is a ton of information available for safe anal, so please educate yourselves before doing this. It is not something to rush into. Find all the information you can before you start. And check out our blog posts for useful tips too.  But for now, here are some basics to get you going…

You could also read our post: A Beginners Guide To Anal Sex Toys

TOP 5 THINGS A MAN SHOULD KNOW BEFORE PEGGING:

  1. Start finding ways to role play and experimenting with power exchange to see how you like being the bottom.
  2. Gear up to it. DO NOT start with full throttle, big-dildo anal. Experimenting on yourself will help you to open up slowly, and also to see if you like the sensation.
  3. Watch others! Find some good Domme porn, or amateur clips… you gotta see if it turns you on to begin with.
  4. Start with your own exploratory fingers, using surgical gloves and a LOT of lube!
  5. You could also try a prostate massager or some sex toys of your own, to get going and to see what you like best.

TOP 13 THINGS A WOMAN SHOULD KNOW BEFORE PEGGING:

  1. Do not buy a strap-on without discussing it beforehand!
  2. He’s keen? Whoop-whooop! Ok cool… you have to choose and purchase the strap-on without him around. He does not need the pressure beforehand, he has enough to deal with.
  3. That’s what WE are here for… please hit that button to chat with us NOW. This is our jam, honey!
  4. Try on the strap-on without him first, get used to it. Move, masturbate. Get the feel of it. This is new for both of you.
  5. Follow the basics of safe anal play. Educate yourself Mamma!
  6. Familiarize yourself with the male sexual anatomy, specifically the anus and the prostate gland.
  7. You could make him wear a blindfold, so that he can really let go.
  8. Use a smaller dildo to begin.
  9. Make sure you have plenty of water-based lubricant!
  10. Use condoms on the dildo!
  11. First explore the outside of his anus with fingers (use surgical gloves).
  12. When he is ready, gently place the tip of the dildo at the entrance and allow his relaxed anus to take the dildo – do not force anything!
  13. Let him set the pace. Follow his lead, even though he is the bottom. That is the mark of a good Top!
  14. Don’t worry if he does not have a hard-on – many men do not get hard during anal, no matter how turned on they are.
  15. Be the best Top you can be, and make sure to give him lots of loving after-care…
TOP ONE THING A COUPLE SHOULD KNOW BEFORE PEGGING:

First use your talk-holes! Anal penetration of any kind requires a lot of communication, and if you cant talk about it… you’re not ready to do it.

So off you go, let’s have at it.

Give us a shout for any help you need. All we want is for you to be sexy… and closer than ever.

Love and Lube

Irit

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