We are going to assume that you have discussed this with your partner, and you are both into the idea of introducing your first toys. That’s excellent, and you are both sexy-sexy geniuses!
If this is something you have been wanting to bring up, but felt too shy, read our blog post How To Introduce Sex Toys To Your Partner
This particular post is concentrating on toys for heterosexual couples, although they can all be used in same-sex play. Let’s start building your collection; here goes breaking down your first sex toys. We begin with one vital essential: lubricant.
BEDSIDE – LUBE ME UP, SCOTTIE!
Yes, you need lubricant, there’s no shame in it. If you are indulging in anal play or using toys, you need a little help towards that maximum pleasure, in the form of a quality lubricant. Think of it as having a meal with condiments, as opposed to dry on the bone!
So here are some tips (for the tip):
- Use the thicker lubricants for anal experiences, please!
- Don’t use silicone lubricants on silicone toys. Look for water-based lubes.
- Avoid lubricants with glycerin, parabens, and other gross additives.
Related: All You Need Is Lube
OUTSIDE – IF YOU LIKE IT, PUT A COCK-RING ON IT
Extremely handy little things, cock-rings are worn around the base of the penis, or the testicles, extending erection by keeping the blood inside the shaft. They can also be used to help hold a condom in place, really do make the penis look bigger, and come in varieties specially designed for her orgasmic pleasure too. They really are a win-win, for both her and him!
Sold? Here is a quick breakdown of the types of cock-rings out there.
- Simple doughnuts: stretchy ring in a rubbery material or silicone.
- Clitoris-stimulating cock rings: usually vibrating and come as disposable products or rechargeable.
- Adjustable cock rings: perfect for newbies.
- Double cock rings: Bring your testes to the party!
Related: Cock Rings. The Complete Guide
INSIDE – VIBING TOGETHER
There are a number of excellent couples vibrators on the market, so you can really find the vibrator that works for both of you. Having a vibe together can add a new element of spice, and help you to open your fields of imagination, wide…
Couples vibrators come in all shapes and sizes, including classic vibrators, rabbit vibrator, bullet vibrators, g-spot vibrators, egg vibrators, wand vibrators*takes a deep breath*… and ending with our top pick: clitoral vibrators:}}.
For more about buying your very first vibrators, read this blog post together! Buying Your First Vibrator.
ALL SIDES – STRAPPED FOR IDEAS
There is a treasure trove of pleasure waiting for you, including light bondage, ben-wa balls, sex furniture… oh, all kinds of kinky deliciousness. Take your time together, looking through the products and posts on our site, and let’s keep talking, and playing.
Here’s to sexy times, cheers!
Related: Sex Toys: The Ultimate Guide